Have you ever been stuck in an awkward sentence, not knowing which pronoun to use? Do you feel forced to use the clunky “he/she” or “his/her” option when all you really want to do is replace it with a “they or their” and move on?
Or have you ever read a sentence with a “they” or “their” that doesn’t match its antecedent? Did you bristle with grammarian know-it-all-ness?
Well guess what? The Associated Press Stylebook and the Chicago Manual of Style now say it’s okay to use the plural, although they do recommend rewording when possible. Here’s what the Associated Press says in a March 2017 announcement:
During a panel at the American Copy Editors Society national conference in St. Petersburg, Florida, on Friday, it was announced that the 2017 AP Stylebook will include guidance on the limited use of ‘they’ as a singular pronoun.
This new recommendation clears up a lot! Here are the details from The Definitive Source, an online AP post:
The addition is immediately available to AP Stylebook Online subscribers and will be included in the new print edition of the Stylebook when it is published on May 31. Key passages from the new entry include:
They, them, their — In most cases, a plural pronoun should agree in number with the antecedent: The children love the books their uncle gave them. They/them/their is acceptable in limited cases as a singular and-or gender-neutral pronoun, when alternative wording is overly awkward or clumsy. However, rewording usually is possible and always is preferable. Clarity is a top priority; gender-neutral use of a singular they is unfamiliar to many readers. We do not use other gender-neutral pronouns such as xe or ze…”
Arguments for using they/them as a singular sometimes arise with an indefinite pronoun (anyone, everyone, someone) or unspecified/unknown gender (a person, the victim, the winner)…
In stories about people who identify as neither male nor female or ask not to be referred to as he/she/him/her: Use the person’s name in place of a pronoun, or otherwise reword the sentence, whenever possible. If they/them/their use is essential, explain in the text that the person prefers a gender-neutral pronoun. Be sure that the phrasing does not imply more than one person…
The change isn’t just about grammar, it recognizes social change and the need to address gender association. AP Stylebook editor Paula Froke explains how this new rule helps:
Not all people fall under one of two categories for sex or gender, according to leading medical organizations, so avoid references to both, either or opposite sexes or genders as a way to encompass all people.
I like to follow the grammar rules and these new ones give me clarity. And while this change was announced nearly a year ago, I only just learned about it. Guess I’d better subscribe to some grammar newsletters!
For everyone who wants to make sure they get it right (can you see I’m trying out the new rule…did I get it right?), here’s more info about the change:
March 24, 2017 announcement from the Associated Press:
“Making a case for a singular ‘they’”
March 27, 2017 post from the Columbia Journalism Review:
“Stylebooks finally embrace the single ‘they’”
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